You know it. You want to change. You want to change XY in your life. And how do you get information about it?

You have already given up asking your friends as they do not get it anyway. You do not trust the internet as people crib there anyhow. And most of the time they crib what is already wrong.

So you think: Maybe the library. You go to the library, start reading a book. The book tells you that you have to do thousands of other things first or at the same time. You read another book and there comes a time when there is no difference between the internet, your friends and books. Massive amounts of information but no proof for truth as far as the eye can reach.

You try things and they don't work. And all books/people around you have solutions to this which require a lot of work first. So you want to do XY but you have to do XX first. XX does not work, so you are told to do WX first. You loose your passion for it and do nothing.

You start to doubt yourself. Am I just not doing enough? Is there a truth, is there the answer to my questions in the books? Do I really have to do the steps mentioned in book A or the ones in Book B? Not to forget that each and every book states that it's contents have to be used lifelong to be effective.

If a book starts by giving you thousands do this and that and another one does the same, people on the internet share their view and your friends finish you off, how do you yourself find out, what to do?

I am asking for several ways of dealing with that. Share yours. Don't start with "it depends".

Reread my post. I am not limiting to eft.

Here's a post I made a while ago, but for a different member.  Even though I wrote it in regards to another member, the points of "Interrogator" apply just the same to Partikel's behavior.

http://www.tappingforum.com/index.php?topic=905.msg4173#msg4173

Partikel... you lovable dumbass   

Man soll nicht Quatsch machen...

"Du wirst keine Beiträge machen, wenn du dumm bist." You obviously wouldn´t listen to that, so I will continue to sharpen up my German and obviously annoy the hell out of you .

Craig, seeing how you´re "young and stupid", I suggest you listen to Partikel. There´s nothing like great advice from an old and stupid person .

No, but your parents obviously did a good job of raising a jackass. You will fail like you likely did at everything else in your pathetic, hate-filled life. Negativity seeps out of you and you reek a smell of repulsion. Nobody likes you here, the top guys try to help you, but you instead mock them and you put down people who need help. Go ahead and keep doing what you´re doing. It seems to be working for you, doesn´it?

You lovable, pathetic loser !

Is that all you´ve got? For someone, who so readily picks on depressed people who need help you really have no imagination. Quite boring, really. If you´re going to insult people and pick fights with them, try to make sure you can actually dish out anything, before picking on anyone even remotely close to your size. I expected more, quite honestly. In any case, I don´t have the wish to participate in this thread any more, so have a nice day. 

Partikel,  This is my first day on this site and only my 2nd week exposed to EFT.  The thing that struck me abt. this subject was that it turned pretty ugly from all perspectives (from a newbie's point of view).  However, you resonate a chord within me b/c you remind me a bit of my stepson in that you have the ability to get seemingly "together" persons all fired up!  That is a talent, believe it!  It just needs to be used constructively. Certainly not one sentence...sorry, but I felt it important to convey.